when relationship sucks big time
Wednesday, March 01, 2006 (8:58 PM)
i'm not cynical when it comes to love but when i see my friend in such predicament, i wonder why people behave like that. selfish? i don't know but his girlfriend asks him to give up his passion for music or give her up. she probably watched too much idol dramas. for someone like her who has no interest or passion in anything, watching movies, going shopping and she'll be happy. what if one day someone asks her to choose between shopping and my friend? it's the same as the cliche mother-and-lover-fall-into-the-sea-who-would-you-save-first question. it's mean of me to use this word, what's more on a girl, even worse on my friend's girlfriend. but FUCK! this will be one of the rare caps you see here. relationship means compromising and giving in while receiving. it's not about dictating and receiving. if you really want to dictate, go run for election in autocratic countries. don't throw your crap here and don't give me that i-gave-you-an-option shit. what kind of option is this? girlfriend or dream? why can't they co-exist? my friend is not asking for 2 wives. relationship is a wonderful thing but when things wither to such pitiful state, it sucks big time.